Every morning while at Frances, I was greeted by this family who would walk by my tent. They were 8 in total. Horacio and Carmen were the proud parents of Gala, 13, Camila, 9, and Lucio, 5. Daniel was a friend of Horacio's and Pablo's father. Hernan was a life long friend of Pablo's and refer to him as Castor (the beaver), making allusion to his teet, long corrected by the use of braces.
Every morning, they would parade their canas (fishing rods) to a good pot, all hoping to catch some trucha (trout). Daniel would lead the pack and Lucio would fall behind. They were friendly and one day, after catching a big one, they invited me to go have dinner with them.
Other than enjoying very tasty fresh trout, it was a great opportunity for me to catch a glimpse of the functionings of an average Argentina family. In all fairness, Argentineans live very similarly to Brazilians, with very few distinct trade marks.
Mate is a unifying element of Argentine culture, playing the same role of rede Globo in Brazil or sitcoms in the states: it gives the family an opportunity to gather around an object and discuss the day together. In the case of the US and Brazil, it is the tv; here it is the bowl of mate. They eat insane amounts of meat, which when combined with insanely hot mate can lead to a painfully early death caused by stomach cancer, at least that is what Chatwin said. (Bruce Chatwin, In Patagonie, penguin books)
They are crazy about soccer, way more than Brazilians are. But what I found most intriguing is their anti-americanism, or anti-yanki, as they say it themselves.
In ths case, anti-yankism was epitomized by Horacio, the father. It is so funny how the reason for every bad thing that goes on in Argentina some how goes back to the US. If some three year old child trips and fall, chipping a tooth, it is either because some imperialist White American actually plotted a way to bring grief upon Argentina by intentionally putting irregularities on the side walk; or it is because some American company holds the entire market of baby food and intentionally took away all the calcium from Argentinean kids' diets.
It has gotten to a point where American responsibility for the Argentine demise is so strong that there is no point in actually fighting against it. It is as if Argentina is just a puppet of American Imperialism and there is nothing one can do.
Horacio was a very welcoming, genuine and full hearted Porteno. They all welcomed me very well, acting as the host family of P.N. Los Alerces.
Perhaps the cutest one of them was Lucio, the 5 year old. Always sporting his cana, Lucio was a temple of serenity. Where other kids would cry their eyes out, Lucio went unphazed. His mother had given up on trying to keep him clean, as he made a point to get himself as ditry as humanly possible.
This one night they invited me to some trout and they also had some pasta with red sauce. I dont need to remind you of the type of havoc children can reap out of red sauce, but Lucio really took the cake. Covered in sauve from his chin to his forehead, it is hard to figure out where he manage to find so much sauce from such a small plate.
With no booster chair and no one to mind him, he kept bringing the plate closer and closer to the edge of the table, until it was dangling from the edge. Just like you average child, Lucio wasn't really aware of how much strength you actually need to cut pasta. Combine the child's excess of force with a plate of pasta dangling from the table and what you get is a catapult that showers Lucio with red sauce from head to toe... nothing short of a Jim Carrey movie.
What I loved the most about Carmen was that she never made Lucio feel bad about stuff. If it were me, the first thing I would say is "look what you did". But that wasn't what Carmen said, instead she turned to him and said...
"Ahhhh, Lucio mira lo que te paso" (ahh Lucio, look what happened to you)
Maybe that was why he was so happy all the time, he carried no sense of guilt. He was adorable.
He came to me one day , as I was getting out from my tent, he looked at me and said.
Tenez cana (do you have a fishing rod?)
No
Bueno, veni y puedes usar la mia (that is fine, come and you can use mine)
I immediately thought of my sister and Pedro, my unborn nephew. I was wondering if you can actually teach someone to be this nice or is it just something one has in them.
My whole week at Frances was awesome. I only left because there were many other places I wanted to visit and I had to move on at some point.